Can my funeral be like this??
You can make whatever plans you want, but when it comes down to it, arrangements for the funeral will be made by those close to you (family, friends, etc) and it is up to them to meet your wishes. The funeral is for those still living; not for you.
Reply:Be good to people and if you don't out-live all your friends, it could happen that way. Until then, be good and treat other people well.
I myself always thought I wanted to be taken out to sea in a boat while everyone had a party. When out bout five miles, they could catapult me out to sea where I could share my spirit with the fish.
Reply:Well, I do not believe you can direct what EVERYONE will do but you can make a pre-arrangement with a funeral director. There are even insurance policies that you can pay up ahead of time. The funeral director will do as you request and make the recommendations to your family. What they do, however, is up to them. Most families if they have been respectful in life will follow through with your requests. It may be good for them to do what you ask. It finalizes your physical body and helps them to get to the point of remembering the better things much sooner.
If you are old and settled, this is a rational question. If you are feeling down and depressed, contact your physician or at least your minister at once because you should talk to a real person about this. It is good to plan ahead. My Mom made her arrangements ahead and it made everything easy for us when that time was at hand.
Reply:hm..sounds interesting. you should be able to ask as your last wish. hopefully youre not thinking of death in the near future though!
Reply:That's weird.
Reply:technically you couldnt get anyone to put a flower and a shovel of dirt on your casket because your casket doesnt go directly into the ground. its first put into a concrete box, and then put in the ground.
Reply:well yes you can if you request it in a will
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