Funeral? What would you do?

I have been dating a girl for 2 months. Her grandmother just died. They will be having the funeral this weekend.



Do I ask to go to the funeral to support her?

Should she ask me if she wants me there?



I have to work, and it won't be easy for me to get off. She knows this

I plan on sending flowers to the church, is this enough?

She hasn't asked me to go to the funeral....

What would you do?
Funeral? What would you do?
ask her if he minds...if she says no say ok whatever is best for you and your family...send her flowers if she says you cant come
Reply:Ask her if she would like for you to try and be there, the flowers is a very nice touch and shows that you care you should definitely do that. Offer your condolences to her mom and dad for their loss, and just be there to support her emotionally if you cant be there for the funeral. That's really all you can do.
Reply:You should try to go to the funeral becaue she needs you. However if you absolutely cannot get off work, just tell ehr how hard you triend and she'll understand. Make sure you're available to her before and after hte funeral in case she needs to talk or be held. The flowers will be nice, her family will appreciate that.
Reply:Ask her if she wants you to go. If she says yes, then you go! I think you should deliver the flowers personally. That would seem nicer. And if she says, "No, that's okay. I know you have to work." Just say okay and show up anyway to surprise her and tell her that you had to be there anyway. But if she REALLY doesn't want you to go, like, when you ask and she practically screams "NO!" Then I wouldn't go, but I'd suspect something
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