We just found out that our neighbor passed away. What can I do for the surviving widow and her family?

I want to help her. It was an unexpected death and I think she is in shock. Her family is here now but I'd like to do something for them. We have already sent flowers and will be going to the funeral on Tuesday. I was thinking of cooking a large amount of food and taking it over? Is this the right thing to do?
We just found out that our neighbor passed away. What can I do for the surviving widow and her family?
Yes, food is always helpful. There will be tons of people in that house, and they need to eat.



After the family leaves, you should stop by periodically or ask if she wants to go to the store or work in the garden together - mostly just to check up on her. Offer to watch any kids once in a while. Etc.
Reply:is not bad, just look at any thing you can do that will solve a need in the present condition and its ok
Reply:I would leave them alone because that's what I'd want, but then the English have a habit of coping with grief alone.



You know the neighbour, so only you know what they'd want you to do. If you think she'd appreciate the food, go ahead.
Reply:Cooking a meal is definitely a good idea, but be warned: I'm betting LOTS of people will have the same thought, so you may not want to cook a huge meal. It really depends on the hospitality in your town and how many friends the widow has. To give you an idea: When my first wife passed away, people from the church we attended brought A LOT of food. We had many family members and friends who were there to eat it (as well as members of the church), but we still ended up having to tell people not to bring food anymore. There was so much we were concerned we would end up throwing some of it out. Something to think about anyway...